Life is all about choices
Further, psychologist also said, many of people who are in the difficult or challenging situations seldom put themselves in the "Victim" position. Being left out with less or no choices.
In Yogic and Buddhism perspective, this condition of mind that needs practice. Knowing that we are the Subject of action or the controller of how the situation would be...not forcing the changes of situation but looking the situation or condition with a clear mind. Understanding that situation or condition happened is the cause of many things around us and there is no way to change it. The only way is the practice of "seeing it"
Recently, I have some difficult or challenging situation myself. It was a moment that I thought I should have walked away because I could not bare the feeling of sad and pain. However, I am very lucky to have a friend and a partner who reminds me about the practice of looking at it. The difficult situation drives sufferings, pain and tears however, that was (and still is) a life lesson and teacher to me. Just like I see myself in front of the mirror and asked "why this is happening to me?" and the mirror as if could say "because this is what you need to learn and to see your EGO, your heart needs to feel ease again like when you were 18 years old"
Then I realised that I need to change my perspective because despite so much wanting to change the situation, deep in my heart I knew I could not. That was beyond my control but I can decide what I want to perceive towards that situation.
I CHOOSE NOT TO GET INVOLVED IN IT, I CHOOSE TO GET CLOSER TO MY OWN CENTER AND MY HEART
I CHOOSE TO FEEL HAPPIER AND FEEL EASE BECAUSE I KNOW I CANNOT CHANGE THE WORLD AND MY SURROUNDINGS BUT MY MIND AND MY PERSPECTIVE
I KNOW IT WILL TAKES LONG AND GREAT PATIENCE, DEEP IN HEART, I KNOW UNIVERSE WILL GUIDE AND PROTECT
THEREFORE.....OM NAMAHA...I SURRENDER...I GIVE MY BEST
knowing Life is about choices....you can choose how you can see life...
it can be simple but can be difficult and complicated as well,
it can be full of love and trust OR can be betrayal and dishonesty
It is what we choose to see, which spectacles we choose to pick and what actions we make today...
Have a nice week ahead in Summer...love...